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diffident

Say it: DIF-ih-dunt /ˈdɪfɪd(ə)nt/ · adjective

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What “diffident” means

Shy because you do not feel confident in yourself.

More precisely: Modest or shy because you lack confidence in yourself.

Example: “He's diffident in meetings, but his written proposals are the sharpest on the team.”

When to use it

When someone holds back because they doubt themselves. A gentle, slightly formal description of shyness or low confidence.

Similar words

shy, timid, unassertive

Where it comes from

From Latin diffidere, 'to fail in trust', from dis- + fidere 'to trust'.

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Although she knows the answer, Aisha hesitates to raise her hand because she doubts herself. She seems…

indifferent or diffident?

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